Before performing oral sex for your favorite person, you have to know how to protect yourself. If the other side of the urethra has secretions, you must pay extra attention, because normal healthy men, in the urethra will not have secretions; In addition, if his penis, or pubic area has redness, rash, protuberances, broken skin, ulcers or ulcers, you also have to be careful, these may be infected with herpes, warts, symptoms; in this case, do not help him oral sex, and do not have sex with him, to protect their own Safety.
Even if you are sure that he is not infected with a sexually transmitted disease, just accidentally rub the skin, do not help him oral sex. Because the bacteria in the human mouth is the most part of the human body, and the average person has gingivitis, not only his virus is easy to enter from your gingivitis wounds, the bacteria in your mouth may also enter from his wounds and cause acute infections, which is quite common in the emergency room.
The prevalence of oral sex, not only cause herpes location swap, the general population immunity is lowered, the corners of the mouth prone to herpes simplex type 1, will therefore be transmitted to the other side of the pubic area, and STD herpes virus type 2, may also be due to the relationship between oral sex and the corners of the mouth to the transfer of herpes virus. In addition, oral sex may also cause the transmission of viral hepatitis. According to studies in Europe and the United States, this is the main cause of hepatitis B and C infections in the European and American populations. Similarly, HIV may enter your bloodstream from semen, through the broken skin of the mouth!
Harmonious sexual life means that both husband and wife are coordinated and harmonized in the process of sexual life, both can have an orgasm, and jointly obtain sexual pleasure and sexual satisfaction. Harmony is established by the couple’s emotional state, accumulated sexual experience, and tacit cooperation. Each couple has the possibility to form their own way of harmony. With a harmonious sex life, couples can have a good relationship and family harmony. On the contrary, an inharmonious sex life will cause sexual dysfunction of both husband and wife, resulting in emotional breakdown, and even lead to the tragedy of divorce.
1. Strong love and affection
Love and affection is the power of attraction between husband and wife, is the sexual harmony of the first Liao conditions, lack of love and affection of life can not be harmonious. It must be suggested that love and affection must be combined with morality to establish a gender relationship with moral principles in order to contribute to the harmony of sexual life. Despite the differences in age, occupation, physique, temperament, cultural level, personality, ideology and behavioral characteristics of husband and wife, and the differences in sexual awareness and response, it is entirely possible to make up for the differences and shortcomings in each other if a husband and wife relationship based on truthfulness, loyalty, respect, understanding and equality can be established.
It should be made clear that every sexual intercourse, regardless of which party requests it, is completely normal, but sexual intercourse must be voluntary on the part of both spouses. Sexual life, husband and wife are not divided into master and slave, can not think that “the wife must meet the husband”, also can not think that “the husband must meet the wife”, both husband and wife can not hold a “cope with The husband and wife can’t even hold the attitude of “coping”. To summarize, a harmonious sex life comes from solid love and feelings, which is very important.
2. Healthy body and good mental state
Sexual life is regulated by the neuroendocrine and through the male and female reproductive organs to complete the complex process, but also accompanied by increased heart rate, blood pressure, shortness of breath, muscle movement from time to time, a large amount of caloric consumption, the need for a healthy body and a good state of mind in order to be competent. If you have sex in a poor state of health or mental depression, sexual function is very easy to appear obstacles, it is difficult to obtain a harmonious sex life sexual satisfaction.
3. Master the law, mutual consideration and cooperation
It is known that there are obvious differences in the sexual function of men and women, in order to achieve sexual harmony between men and women, it is necessary to solve the imbalance of “male strong female weak, male fast female slow”. Usually women’s sexual impulses are in a latent state, men should mobilize women’s libido, do a good job of pre-coital caressing preparations, couples should be used in a gentle language, sweet kisses, intimate embrace, gently caressing the female clitoris, breasts, nipples, and other sexually sensitive areas, make full use of visual, auditory, tactile, stimulate female libido to start, so that women are moved to be women have sexual intercourse requirements and then carry out, so that men and women can be at the same time or successively reach orgasm. This will enable both men and women to reach orgasm at the same time or successively. After ejaculation, men should continue to embrace women for a period of time, fully caress and talk to each other, so that women can obtain psychological satisfaction.
4. Good at eliminating psychological factors interference
Human sexual life is different from animals, the most important difference is regulated by the central nervous system, able to eliminate psychological factors interfere, must do both husband and wife in the psychological equal status. Psychological balance, mutual trust and integration, sincere love for each other, is the first psychological factors of a harmonious sex life.
The sexual life of husband and wife is legal and civilized. Sexual life should be carried out in a suitable environment, such as the bedroom should be quiet, less interference, curtains during the day to make the indoor light soft, the evening should be a small degree of light. The bed should be comfortable, bedding should be clean, try to choose their favorite style and color, suitable environment for pre-coital caressing to create conditions for sexual life is one of the important conditions of harmony.
5. Choose the right time to have a moderate number of times
When is the most appropriate time to have sexual intercourse, how many times is the most conducive to the health of sexual intercourse, so far there is no uniform statement.
Most scholars believe that the best choice for sexual life in the evening before going to sleep, so that there can be sufficient time to restore physical strength. However, some scholars have suggested that before going to sleep is the whole day’s work after the body is most tired, but choose to get up early in the morning before sex, is not appropriate. Because of the inevitable fatigue after sex, may affect the daytime work efficiency and learning effect.
The number of sex should be appropriate to grasp, although there is no uniform standard, and the age difference is very big, but should be sex the next day both husband and wife do not feel fatigue as a principle, and even feel physically and mentally comfortable, the spirit of happiness, indicating that the number of sex is moderate.
Very important. Always rinse your mouth.
Honestly, my favorite part of a couple’s relationship is oral sex