How to get a good girl: ten points of technical reference

1, learn to laugh at yourself

If you are ugly, well, that’s okay, since you can’t change it, just be honest about it. Do not have to excessively modify their own, if you let the woman think that you look ugly because of the appearance of low self-esteem, then you have begun the first step of failure. In the process of getting along with women to learn to humorously self-deprecating, you can arbitrarily exaggerate their own physical defects, the shortcomings as a joke, the shortcomings can also become advantages, even if you can not, it will at least add some fun to your conversation, such a way of talking is easy to give you self-confidence, almost all women like self-confidence and funny men. Of course, not all the defects can be used to funny, for example, you are a blind or cripple.

2, the love is not tired of fraud

If you do not love a woman but want to get her body, then you have to deceive yourself to say that you are in love with her, the woman is a sniffing animal, love or not, she can see at a glance, so you must learn to deceive yourself before deceiving women. If you fall in love with a woman, you can never show it, always remind yourself not to really fall in love, no matter do so there is no use, once you fall into the whirlpool of feelings, you are very difficult to win.

Love is a war, before going to bed, men and women will always be a pair of selfish enemies, men shoot love bullets to conquer the woman’s sexual position, the woman defends her body but want to get love, love is not tired of fraud, sex is not discouraged, they who do not want to compromise, until one day they lie in the same negotiation bed. So, say goodbye to the climax, someone in tears, someone smiled.

3, the emotional cost

Different from recruiting prostitutes, no matter how ruthless you are, picking up girls always have to pay more or less feelings, if possible, try to let the woman beforehand to ask you to eat, even if it is just a bowl of noodles or a few strings of lamb skewers, the money is not in how much, but it is significant, which involves a person’s feelings to pay for the problem is very critical, especially for the first time. If after such a meal, you feel that you are not interested in this woman, and do not want to have anything to do with her in the future, and do not want to owe her anything, then you’d better take the initiative to pay the bill, to maintain the gentleman’s demeanor. On the contrary, if you fall in love with this woman, you can never be too generous, you do not have to pretend to be a gentleman, you have to be a bad man, women like bad men, they will go home and wonder how they will invite such a garbage man to dinner, they will be puzzled is not their own love for this man, they will be deeply into the wave of self-criticism, and finally they will reluctantly find a very unseemly reason for themselves! To sadly go to sleep, this time, the woman’s pay began, you also began the first step of success. Don’t eat those unnecessary meals with women, if you have eaten twice and still have no luck, in a loveless situation, hurry to change.

Unlike going to work, no matter how convenient your transportation, you do not drive or take the car to take the initiative to go to the woman, you want the woman to take the initiative to come over to you, no matter how far she is, one kilometer, one hundred kilometers or even a thousand kilometers, the distance is not in the near or far, but it is significant, which is also related to the issue of a person’s emotional commitment.

Combine these two points together to see, if a woman came all the way over to ask you to have a meal, and then after that, the ass climbed on the last train, on the way home, with the smell of alcohol, she wants to not love you are difficult. So in many cases, many women do not leave after dinner, she will directly stay with you for the night, because she pays the feelings, he is eager to get something from you, even if it is only physical, that is also a kind of return.

If a man does this it won’t work, you go out of your way to run over and ask her to finish her meal, she will politely send you to the station, you don’t want anything, she won’t be touched by your hard work and generosity because it’s not love. In your place, her vanity is satisfied, charm is reflected, self-esteem also still exists, so she does not love you.

4. Gaining sympathy

If you think a woman doesn’t love you, but you are in love with her. You’re witty, you’re cute, you’re frank, you’re sincere, you’re profligate, you’re talented, but she doesn’t appreciate any of these virtues of yours, then there’s another trick, that is, to play the poor, and squeeze out a false tear or two when necessary. You can make up stories for her, you say your childhood misfortunes, that you are an orphan, that you were abandoned by a woman, that you are disappointed in life, that the shadow of your family, that you once attempted suicide, that you were beaten and hospitalized ……

Women are born to be men’s mothers, they have a motherly heart, you have to think of yourself as their son to tell your fictional misfortune, if you can’t be a director of love, then you have to learn to be a good actor, to throw yourself into the drama of sadness, there is nothing to be ashamed of, because love itself is a drama.

Sympathy is not love, this is good, but according to Marxist philosophical theory, the two sides of the contradiction can be transformed into each other, sympathy may be transformed into love in an instant, there are many such examples, not to be listed.

5, the quick fight

For those women who are online, chatting is their best enjoyment, through chatting and flirting, they can get emotional fulfillment, even if it is fictional, but also enough to fill their empty hearts. For men, chatting is just a means to an end, if you can’t hold on to it, you’re likely to give your feelings, although it’s fictional, but it’s enough to keep people up at night. Chat for a long time, the woman is naturally bored, if the man always do not take action, the woman will leave you one day, maybe three days, maybe three years, all the efforts will pay for the mouth.

Do not need to spend a long time with the woman mixed very familiar, two familiar people together with friends or relatives, what else is new? You might as well go home and sleep with your husband or boyfriend. To be the kind of half-baked excitement, only then, cheating is more meaningful. Many women, with a fixed partner, why go out to find a man? Do not just figure a refreshing? You play with her like a brother, no meaning at all.

Without missing a beat, unintentionally suggest a party without having to be serious and say, “Are you free tonight?” It’s just like in the fucking movies, not practical at all, 100% of women will say they’re not available, whether she loves you or not. Men and women, who first elevate that delicate relationship to the heights of love means who fails, love, whoever expresses it first fails. It’s not at all late to talk about love when you’re in bed. The sublimation of love is not by language, but by swift physical contact.

6, tension and relaxation

All right to the woman to make a phone call, do not have to deliberately arrange the time and place, when you want to get up when to play. Can be on the road, can be in the mall, can also be in those crowded toilets, can be in the drink, can be in other women’s beds, can be in the office can also be in the car, no need for a quiet environment, no need for how private occasions, everything to come naturally and randomly, the call time should not be too long, don’t love, don’t say that you want to say, blindly, say something irrelevant, put yourself as a psycho, and even suddenly hang up the phone. You can even hang up suddenly, and then call her three days later to explain that there is nothing wrong with the way. This is not only their own ease, the other side also feel relieved, not because of a phone call with you and how much psychological pressure. But don’t always give a woman a phone call every day, don’t worry about the woman for a long time not to contact you, if she cares about you, she will wonder how this person a few days still don’t give me a phone call? If she does not care about you, not by a few phone calls to solve the problem, you have to borrow other means. If a woman loves you, she will understand your phone call as care, if a woman does not love you, she will understand your phone call as harassment. Whether it’s concern or harassment, it’s better to have it than not!

You can even suddenly disappear from her life for a long period of time and see how she reflects on it, if she forgets you on that, you may be lost, but that doesn’t mean she rejects you. If you want to continue, you can appear in a sudden night in her downstairs, or in her often walk on the road and her chance encounter, you can be very enthusiastic to go up and shake hands with her or embrace, don’t care about her feelings, be brave; you can also lightly nod with her, and then continue to move on, don’t take her seriously, and let her depressed to go. In short, do not easily let a woman find you in pursuit of her, no matter how painful you are, if you really want to get her, you have to bear such pain.

7, big love small do

If a woman is very willing to get along with you, she has subconsciously ready to go to bed with you at any time, leaving aside the feelings, very few women come out under the banner of a friend to cheat food and drink (except for the Shanghai woman), almost all women are in the state of thinking fuzzy and insulted. Specifically when you can go to bed, it depends on the woman’s mood, the man’s efforts are generally in the early stage, to the late stage, the only thing a man can do is to create an atmosphere, create a moving, drawing a circle so that the woman has plenty of reasons to drill into, she can say she is drunk, you can say that they are in a bad mood, you can say that her husband is unfaithful, in short, you have to make her psychological balance she has a reason to go to bed with you. I still say, make love, in fact, just a small thing, now all the advanced stage of socialism, no one take this as the Cultural Revolution to see, men and women fight to the end of the fight a psychological, physical is just a feast for their peace. In addition to the first time, there are a few women for a trivial, uneventful sex and weeping? These are just things they talk about years later or fond memories before they die. Those who would rather die than submit to the woman, in the dying will repent, they always think it is the man is playing them, in the dying time they realize that they live is not enough of this. This may be the tragedy of women.

So I still want to remind men, in the critical moment, do not always wait, hanging, eat on dinner, good chat, good flirting, any step is very critical, if you eat when you think of bed after dinner, psychological panic, flirting failure, not happy, lost, you think it is worth it? Whether you have a woman or not, you have to let the woman feel that you do not lack a woman, you do not necessarily have to count on her tonight, why is it that the more women a man has, the more new women will join ah? Why is it that the more women there are, the more scarce they become? That’s why. Make love, is a very pleasant thing, not to ask, not possession, that is God for us to arrange the carnival, we have to thank God first, so we do not rush.

8. Before going to bed

On this point I still give examples easier to understand. Before going to bed if you arrange to eat, location selection is very important, according to the specific location of the bed to determine, if in the dormitory, it is necessary to choose not far from the residence of the hotel, if the hotel opened a room, it is directly in the hotel restaurant with a woman to have dinner or lunch. Drinking is not in how much, drink on the line, eat what do not pay attention to, happy on the line, and do not try to get people drunk, that in turn let the other side of the disgust and vigilance. So, eating is secondary, the key is to eat after how to do. For women, generally not much initiative, they are always waiting for the man’s arrangements, the man’s way of dealing with two kinds: the first is eager to say to the woman, “we go upstairs to rest for a while? And so on, the purpose is to let the woman into the room; the second may not be able to say such words, after the bill do not know how to do, stupidly waiting for the woman’s decision. These two ways of dealing with many women friends feel difficult and disappointment, therefore, many people just so unhappy.

According to the first way, almost very few women will agree to “go upstairs to rest for a while”, they usually make such as “no, next time”, “I still have something”, “We still go out to shop it” and other answers, even if they really want to go upstairs with you to ambiguous some will not say, they must give themselves or their spouses a psychological account, so the man put such a question or request to say it has been doomed to they will not succeed. According to the second way, the woman’s decision can be imagined, as long as she is not a prostitute, I think she will not offer to enter your room. The outcome of the “goodbye” may not be what either of them expects, and they may both still be horny, but almost no woman will take the initiative to cater to a man, so it’s unwise for a man to wait for a woman to arrange things in bed. You are the man, women are many times willing to put themselves at your disposal, they prefer to be silent, and the man has to bear the burden.

You must choose the third way of dealing with the situation,-silence and walking. The so-called silence is the dinner directly after the bill, while the happy atmosphere has not dissipated, while the romantic story is not yet terminated, while the anesthesia of alcohol has not yet expired, do not say anything, directly standing in the door of the elevator, waiting for the door of passion that will soon be open for you. Do not say anything, no matter what the woman asked, you do not say anything, can not pretend to be drunk, in short, the man should give the woman enough reasons and steps, and so she got on the elevator, and so she went into the room, maybe she will not say anything. The room should be opened in advance, don’t wait until after dinner to remember to take those innocent women around to open the room, what is this? Afraid that people won’t see it are you?

If you’re not sure you don’t want to get a room ahead of time go to your house, you take her down the road or get in your car or you reach for a taxi, no need to ask for the woman’s opinion, that’s key! Two people together in the car to go to your home, do not ask the woman “to my home to sit ah” “you intend to do ah” and so on and so forth nonsense, which will make it difficult for women to answer, and finally had no choice but to say home. There may be some women in the room after drinking some water and asked to leave, then you have two choices: the first choice is to let her roll, do not send her, close the door vigorously, let her go home alone regret to go, she came all the way to dinner, eat and into the room stayed so long, in the middle of the night to spend more than a hundred dollars and take a taxi home, she is not sick? She is not accountable to herself, where a little quality of women will feel sorry for you; the second option is rape, there is no real rape!

9, the principle of give and take

The kind of hungry, come and go men seem to get a lot of women, in fact, in the long run is not to get women’s favor. That is to say, we must improve their own aesthetics and outlook on life by picking up girls, through the girls we can also understand a lot of human reasoning, but also will develop our distinctive taste in life. When you really can’t hold it in, you’d rather go to a prostitute than pissing on a coin, which is against the law of value.

Classmates, coworkers, hometowns, customers, nesting grass and those with you do not have any blood relations with relatives (such as: sister-in-law, etc.), please do not stick to mess with, you can only go to the defilement of those with you do not have the slightest social relationship with the female friends. You should not use your work, study or position to solicit and corrupt any woman to sleep with you. Picking up women is picking up women, it’s a pure job, you don’t have to rely on relationships to get there, otherwise it’s no different than talking business.

10, good treatment of women

Judge whether you love a woman has a physical standard, that is: after you make love to her, if you want to continue to sleep with her in your arms, which means you have fallen in love with this woman; if you make love to her after the urgent desire to leave her, which means that you will never fall in love with this woman.

Even so, you can be ruthless but never shameless, don’t go peeing as soon as your pants are up afterwards, you have to floor the woman in your arms and caress her well, don’t let her have the illusion of being played with, whether you love her or not. If you meet a virgin, you must pay, if she does not want cash you can use other ways, you have to be willing to give how much, according to your income to determine, normally a month’s salary. This is sincere, I’m not saying it as a joke. Don’t be too cruel to women, come out of the woodwork, if you owe too much, one day you will have to pay.