A good date can hit the heart of the other person at once, but a date that is not in control may lose all the chances at once. Atmosphere is very important in dating.
And to achieve the goal of advancing the relationship, you need to inspire the guy to feel good about you in every way. In a gender relationship that can make something between the two parties, or make an emotional qualitative sublimation of each other, it is necessary to pay attention to the sense of chic, comfort, participation, design, and extreme in the relationship.
If in the process of a relationship, it is inevitable to date, so we know that dating need to pay attention to what?
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Chic sense
（1） affinity sense of makeup
Everyday no defiance of light makeup is most suitable for dating, light lipstick, coupled with if not perfume flavor. The foundation should not be too heavy, do not apply too white, give a natural and valued feeling is good.
（2）decent dress
In a formal date or blind date with the object of desire, through the appearance of the other party to give a sweet hit, can be said to greatly improve the chances of winning. It is not recommended that you should wear sweatpants and baggy clothes. You should wear clothes that make you feel attractive and confident. This way you can show your date the truest version of yourself.
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Comfort
Two people in the dating process first need to establish a certain sense of comfort, and then step by step, slowly together. What does comfort mean? It is two people in a piece, will not feel awkward, even if the words are not much. There will be a strong sense of comfort, in line with the elements of love warming and have a new dating place, the environment is elegant and softly lit cafe, the local suitable for night walks, comfortable environment of the river, the square and so on these places are suitable for dating.
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Sense of participation
When it comes to what to do on a date, many people will habitually choose to eat, watch a movie, which seems to have become the Chinese dating standard. In fact, there is nothing wrong with dinner and a movie, but from the perspective of promoting the relationship, dinner and a movie is very difficult for your relationship to develop.
Dating locations/activities I categorize as “static” and “dynamic”. Static refers to activities that involve sitting, such as eating, watching a movie, etc. Dynamic refers to activities that involve a sense of shared participation, such as hiking, diy, or escaping from a secret room. Equivalent to static, dynamic is more able to promote your relationship.
Because in the process of “moving”, you are jointly involved in an activity, this sense of participation can make two people quickly familiar with each other, deepen each other’s impression. Just like when you were a kid, playing with your friends for an afternoon, the relationship will soar, and when you parted, you still reluctantly asked for the next time. And dynamic activities are simply the best choice for people who are not good at chatting.
Because the equivalent of two people dry sitting, activities together neither need to chat all the time, but also to generate instant conversation, so you will not be “” what to talk about “” the world’s difficult problem.
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Do a good job of strategy
The first date is the best time to enhance the relationship, whether you can give the girl a perfect dating experience is to give her a good impression of the key, dating the lack of sincerity, the temporary want to get up and then dating so that the other party has the feeling of not being valued, once you do not get the recognition, the destruction of the dating success rate not to mention, but also greatly reduce our index of attraction.
So you can increase the design of the date from the date time, location and specific details. For example, two people to go to the appointment location is not convenient, good taxi, will not go to a net red store, queuing up a particularly large number of people. And the date of the transition to do a variety and efficient, not just a single dinner and a movie, can be “dinner – coffee – shopping”, or The “playground – walk”, arrange two to three date program.
I would like to share with you some suitable date places: secret rooms, amusement parks, haunted houses, aquariums, DIY craft stores, private theaters, ski resorts, etc. The above date places can promote the interaction between the two of you. This can create more effective contact time between you and also enhance the comfort level.
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Choice of topics
Choice of topics for the first date No matter how well you and the girl chatted on WeChat before, the first date is still a new starting point, and if you chat more than the current level of the relationship, then your date will definitely end in failure.
So the first date between two people with chatting, the topic is best to make more interaction between the two sides. For example, on a first date, it is taboo to chat about personal matters such as monthly salary and family. The best way to chat is first to share yourself, and then gradually lead the other person to show yourself, when asking one side, it is better to ask questions with open questions. When the other person is sharing themselves, listen carefully, focus on interacting with the other person, and maintain eye contact. Some of the topics you can talk to each other about are: the weather, food, friends, childhood, the future, ideals, current circumstances, things around you, your opinions about things, etc.
In addition to the above few dating elements, you have to bring your sincere heart with you.
Often, many techniques are designed to increase the likelihood and sustainability of intimacy, and without sincerity, none of the techniques can achieve its best utility.
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The blogger is an emotional expert.
I’ve learned my lesson. I’m going to get a girl.